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edited Jun 30 at 20:46 123 AbduAllah 55018 123%20AbduAllah's gravatar image

Salam alayk wa rahmatu-Allah wa barakatuhu

In the name of Allah, Most Beneficent, Most Merciful

There are two issues that Ihavewith your question, dear questioner.

First of all, this forum, and the internet at large, is generally not the best place to find a spouse.

Second, and more important, is the tag you have placed on the kind of spouse you want. This word 'moderate Muslim' has been flying around a lot lately, and in more common usage seems to refer to Muslims who do not seem to support some of the fundamental tenets of Islam, especially Jihad.

There is no such thing as a moderate Muslim, as this would mean that this 'moderate' person cherry-picks a part of the Deen and leaves other parts of it. But Allah (the Almighty) says what means:

“... So do you believe in part of the Scripture and disbelieve in part [this is tantamount to complete disbelief]? Then what is the recompense for those who do that among you except disgrace in worldly life; and on the Day of Resurrection they will be sent back to the severest of punishment. And God is not unaware of what you do. Those are the ones who have bought the life of this world [in exchange] for the Hereafter, so the punishment will not be lightened for them, nor will they be aided.” – Baqarah:85-86

This term moderate Muslims more generally implies a person who does not have an uncompromising adherence to his Deen and if you desire to grow as a Muslim, then this is not the kind of spouse you want. I will not say much more lest I go and write a booklet.

Allah knows best

Salam alayk

answered 281 Nuh%20Uthman's gravatar image
edited Mar 02 at 01:49

Salam alayk. Brother Umar, thank you for standing up in my defence, Masha-Allah; the mark of a true brother. Dear Muslim sister, may the peace of Allah be upon you and those who follow the guidance. I am not writing this comment to defend my self, but to reiterate my answer: If you don't want someone who stands fast for his Deen, then I do not know whom you want to marry. I gave you advice I thought any Muslimsister might appreciate, but it turns out you now hate me for it. May Allah guide me, and guide you, and may His peace be upon who follow His guidance. Salam alayk.

(Mar 02 at 01:56) Nuh Uthman Nuh%20Uthman's gravatar image

PS: I created my account about 10 hours before you decided to turn this website into a dating site. Salam

(Mar 02 at 01:57) Nuh Uthman Nuh%20Uthman's gravatar image

I won't accept a wife who doesn't wear hijab and doesn't practice Islam. I would want her to go to paradise with me. Just a my view of ideal partner. @Nuh Uthman

I +1 your answer since it is haqq. And unfortunately Muslims don't find haqq palatable.

(Mar 02 at 12:26) abdul_wasay ♦ abdul_wasay's gravatar image

Al hamdulilahee may Allah reward you brothers for giving the sister the haqq what she is looking is a moderate kaffir who is posing as a muslim only in name. Sister please read sura 33:36, once you understand this ayat there is no room for moderate. Plus this is not the forum for your request. Salaam

(Mar 02 at 12:41) yaqin ♦ yaqin's gravatar image


Please refrain from asking here as this is not a matrimonial site.

Jazakallah Khairun

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