Online relationship sites?
Salam alayk wa rahmatu-Allah wa barakatuhu
In the name of Allah, Most Beneficent, Most Merciful
There are two issues that Ihavewith your question, dear questioner.
First of all, this forum, and the internet at large, is generally not the best place to find a spouse.
Second, and more important, is the tag you have placed on the kind of spouse you want. This word 'moderate Muslim' has been flying around a lot lately, and in more common usage seems to refer to Muslims who do not seem to support some of the fundamental tenets of Islam, especially Jihad.
There is no such thing as a moderate Muslim, as this would mean that this 'moderate' person cherry-picks a part of the Deen and leaves other parts of it. But Allah (the Almighty) says what means:
“... So do you believe in part of the Scripture and disbelieve in part [this is tantamount to complete disbelief]? Then what is the recompense for those who do that among you except disgrace in worldly life; and on the Day of Resurrection they will be sent back to the severest of punishment. And God is not unaware of what you do. Those are the ones who have bought the life of this world [in exchange] for the Hereafter, so the punishment will not be lightened for them, nor will they be aided.” – Baqarah:85-86
This term moderate Muslims more generally implies a person who does not have an uncompromising adherence to his Deen and if you desire to grow as a Muslim, then this is not the kind of spouse you want. I will not say much more lest I go and write a booklet.
Allah knows best
Please refrain from asking here as this is not a matrimonial site.
huma, goodluck with that. as you see this isn't what anyone in their right mind would call a moderate website. i have noticed a woman from malaysia commenting on loonwatch.com. (nur binti ...ahmad - something like that. should be obvious.) she seems downright reasonable, especially for a muslim. if you go to the katy perry story you will see her comments and she is registered on disquis. maybe she can help you, perhaps knows about the part of malaysia you are in?
funny the advertise dating sites here.