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Salam alikum! I have a problem that i have to convince a friend that masturbation is haram but she wants a prove with a surah or hadith. Because she thinks that masturbating will help staying away from zina so shortly she thinks that youths has to choose masturbation or zina... Plz help me with a surah or hadith to convince her Jazak allah khayr

asked 157 Diyana's gravatar image

Don't worry it is a normal thing that the youth use to keep themselves from having sex. There is no hadith to help you. You just need to tell her about the perils of putting things in her vagina. Use science and medical facts. It is known people who stick the wrong things in their private area can develop cancer and other ailments such as UTI.

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answered 341 theqman's gravatar image

Wa aliakum assalam

Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet of Allah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “The person who performs marriage [nikah] with his hands (i.e. masturbates) is cursed.” (Fatawa Razaviyya, Vol. 10, p.80)

Suhail son of Sai’d (may Allah be pleased with them) narrates that the Holy Prophet (Allah’s’ Grace & Peace be upon him) said: Whoever gives me the assurance (not to unlawfully use) what is between their jaws and their legs (i.e. the tongue and the private parts), I give them the assurance of the Heaven. (Bukhari)

The Holy Prophet (Allah’s Grace & Peace be upon him) said, "No doubt the virtues wipe away the sins". Therefore a masturbator must repent sincerely with an intention that he will never commit it again and do good deeds. According to a Prophetic narration, "The one who repents is like the who does not have any sin."

please let me know if it helps

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edited Jun 10 at 10:38
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