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Salam alikum friends! My boyfriend has been cheating on me for three months and i caught him a few days ago. Now i have much problems i cant eat anythin(haven't eaten for 3 days now) and i cant sleep. I feel like I'm going crazy and i have no tears left in my eyes anymore. Im going through a really hard situation because he was my everything. We had been together for 4 years and we were almostly engaged. I cant believe that he did this to me. I pray daily but i still cant find calmness. Im going crazy plz help me

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Sorry I won't help. I only advise in husband-wife relationships. You're a fornicator according to Shariah, and thus you have escalated to a Big Sinner (Ghuna Kabira).

Even knowing the fact its not allowed in Islam you still are in this relationship?

13 And whether you keep your talk secret or disclose it, Verily, He is the All-Knower of what is in the breasts (of men).

14 Should not He Who has created know? And He is the Most Kind and Courteous (to His slaves), All-Aware (of everything).

Surah Mulk

Jazakallah Khair

answered 8638 abdul_wasay's gravatar image

I know it was haram but i guess it was Allah's blessings that we broke up...I'm asking for advice about how i can feel calm and happy again

(Apr 02 at 17:18) Diyana Diyana's gravatar image

Number 1, come back to Allah! Verily the verse states the solution:

"Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest"[13:28]

Number 2 find a real man who is willing to marry. When it comes to marriage boys get cold feet, a real man is able to support emotionally and financially, and fulfil his duties as a husband.

Dont get a boyfriend , get a manfriend (husband). :)

If you come back to 'that' path again!

"...Oh, that those who do evil had but known, (on the day) when they behold the doom, that power belongeth wholly to Allah, and that Allah is severe in punishment![2:165]"

(Apr 02 at 19:32) abdul_wasay ♦ abdul_wasay's gravatar image
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