Salam I have been married for 8 yrs with my husband I have two kids with him. He constantly accuses me of being unfaithful, and he says he can't trust me calls me names says the most hateful things toward me. I cannot take a shower without him thinking there is someone there, if I'm tired and go to bed early he thinks I'm sleeping with someone. I'm innocent I don't do these things. He even records me taking a shower and he thinks someone is with me. I cry all the time now because of this I suffer from depression. When we're out in public he thinks I'm looking at someone else. Please what should I do .
Baseless accusations are wrong as stated in Quran:
And in another place:
His actions are severing the ties:
I would advise you this:
Where is his proof? If he can't produce any he is a liar. I think he lacks security (e.g. thinking I am not good enough for my wife) more because this type of behaviour is,not acceptable in Islam.
It is devils job to produce doubts in mind:
Do you know whom Iblees loves the most?
Source: Sahih Muslim 2813
The plot of devil is weak, and it seems to me as if devil is constantly whispering to your husband and trying to destroy the family:
Sister you must see through devil's plans because it is he who is whispering. I would advise you to deal with the situation tactfully and encourage husband to improve his imaan. Inshallah there will be changes.
You can recite Surah-al Baqrah in your home to protect your family from devil:
Inshallah there will be changes! Put your faith in Allah: *Allah is sufficient for us, and He is the best disposer of affairs [3:173]*
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