Assalam u alaikum,
I had a question on divorce but before that let me tell you about myself. I am married to my wife since 4 years and she is a revert. We have had fights before and she has used the word Divorce before and also said several times that she wants to leave. But I know that it was only out of anger and she didn't mean it, thus we always worked it out, although I know she shouldn't use it.
Recently I was chatting to my brother and he also recently got married and his wife also used the word Divorce, so I was counselling him and told him that wife's use the word divorce but the don't necessarily mean it and told him not to worry they love us a lot and it is something they use out of anger. My wife read that text message, and since then she said that I talk behind her back to my brother and that she wants a divorce from me.
She also abused me with bad words, also thinks that I always talk bad about her to my family. And this is not the case, I have never ever talked about our matters to my family, this was the first time and also my intentions were to make things better for my brother's marriage. I know it is my mistake and I should of not talked behind her back and admitted it to her and apologized, but she was hesitant. I love my wife a lot, and have never used the word divorce, but she says she doesn't trust me.
I want to know from a third person that what I did was worth all the behavior I got form my wife, and was she right to use the word divorce against me in this matter.
Please give me your humble opinion because it can matter a lot in our marriage.
Thank you, Muhammad