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Asalam alikum, I have read on a question that had gave me a good question myself. I had wondered, if a man and a women who aren't muslim get married in their own past religion, or previous cultural way, and the convert to Islam, should they make another wedding with a sheikh present and witnesses from each side of the family? Also I understand completely that Allah has 100% power over these kinds of matters, but if a man and a women are in love, and they both die, Allah only knows where they go in the afterlife, but will that man be able to be with his one true love? His beloved wife? It seems sad if a man is in paradise but to know the that the soul of his beloved wife is not in the heavens with him... I'm very sorry if this seems like a dumb question, I'm not even married, I'm still a teenager, but I know I'm going to love my wife and wish to be with her for eternity.

Thanks, I've been pondering that thought ever since I was a kid, and I didn't feel comfort asking any of my family members.

Muhammad it will satisfy every muslim desire. Does Allah not know what you desire for?

The desire you have for this world is many times better in paradise. So you cant imagine it.

You know what is the biggest happiness in paradise? You will get to see Allah.

35Verily, We have created them (maidens) of special creation. 36And made them virgins. 37Loving (their husbands only), (and) of equal age.

Regardless of being single or not you will get spouse .

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edited May 02 at 10:36

The spouse we desire for?

(May 02 at 14:24) hijabi girl hijabi%20girl's gravatar image

Why not, if I live with my wife for 80 years and I die with her, I'll have to marry some strangers in paradise??? I'd rather be with my wife that I've had spent my life with than be with some maiden virgin, paradise is not for only pleasuring manly needs, to be with ones you love is it not?

(May 02 at 15:43) Muhammad noor qutawna Muhammad%20noor%20qutawna's gravatar image

I think u misunderstand concept of paradise. You can get anything you want includin ur wife.

(May 02 at 19:35) abdul_wasay ♦ abdul_wasay's gravatar image

what if his wife is in hell?

(May 03 at 11:41) mikejm4 mikejm4's gravatar image

Well the mike you would cry for her.

(May 03 at 12:21) abdul_wasay ♦ abdul_wasay's gravatar image

Mike...please... Keep talking smack.. You already know.

(May 03 at 19:33) Muhammad noor qutawna Muhammad%20noor%20qutawna's gravatar image

Wait a second, what if my wife was in hell god forbid? Can I still pray to god to bring her with me for eternity?

(May 03 at 19:39) Muhammad noor qutawna Muhammad%20noor%20qutawna's gravatar image

No she will be dealt for her deeds by Allah separately

Muhammad (pbuh) wil be saying my ummah my ummah on qiyamah. Since he womt be allowed to stop that how can you?

(May 03 at 20:08) abdul_wasay ♦ abdul_wasay's gravatar image

Okay than, I'm still waiting in the deletion of my account, how long does admin take for this? I thought if just use the website to Learn for a little more right??

(May 03 at 20:55) Muhammad noor qutawna Muhammad%20noor%20qutawna's gravatar image
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