i recently got married to my husband 5 months before but he is not giving me anything like money or buying anything like luxury things even he is not telling me monthly salary he is not giving anything even if he is capable of he gives each and every thing to his father and mother even they have more properties and money than he had he just fulfills the daily needs he has not given me even hundred rupees still can i divorce him and find a job and do it so that i can buy what i need i dont want to depend and just beg him for money for things like gold etc even he is capable of he not buys anything for me but gives each and every thing to his mother though his father is alive and has much more money than my husband is having should i divorce him and find a good job to fullfill my dreams becoz he says he has the responsibility of his two brothers who r 21 and 23 his father can fullfill theirs should i divorce him or is their any rule that he must fullfill my dreams for which he is capable of his mother always puts clashes between me and my huband
It was reported from Hakim bin Mu’awiyah Al-Qushairi, fom his father, that he asked, “O Allah’s Messenger (PBUH)! What are the rights that our wives have over us?” He replied, “That you feed her when you eat, and clothe her when you wear clothes, and that you avoid hitting her in face or disgracing her, and that you avoid abandoning her except at home.”
Mu’adh ibn Jabal reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, sent him to Yemen and he said, “Beware of luxury. Verily, the servants of Allah do not live luxuriously.”
And mother right is greater over the man and I will yet again give you a hadith for this:
Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) who said: I asked the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), “Who has the most right over a woman?” He said: “Her husband.” I said, “Who has the most right over a man?” He said, “His mother.”
I have already mentioned rights of wives in a hadith.