I married last year, 2011, with my loved one, and she loves me too. Recently, I found her E-mail box is open. I took a glance, then I found there are so many letters had sent to only one E-mail address. This appealed my curiosity, and then I begin to read them.
Those letters were written during 2006 to 12/2009. I acquaint with her from 04/2009.
According to these letters, during those time she fall in love with a married man, who is a director of a company, and they had sexual relationship. In letter, the man said he loves her and promised will marry with her, and she also indicated that she loves him so much. Finally, after two years relationship, the man proposed break up their relationship. Then finish.
After, reading these letters I am very depressed and disappointed. I have questioned the moral purity of my wife. Meanwhile, I also told to myself that maybe the man have cheated her and maybe she really loved him. If she really loved and it was a real love, maybe I should have forgive her.
In her explanation: she said that this is the most and only one stupid thing she ever did. She did not told me that before just because of she ashamed it and she felt it is really bad. She said she loves me, she is honest to me, she never lies me.
Should I forgive her?