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Asalam aleikum everyone I need some of you're advices I have a thirteen year old friend who is the same age as me and we live in the Uk and she is not in the right path me and here are close friends Alhamdullah and she says that she Tries a lot but she gets to many distractions. Like music, not praying 5times a day and arguing with her parents I've given her advice but It dosent work and she is starting not to like me and sometimes she avoids me she says I give her too much lectures. nobody is perfect and I ain't perfect what advice should I give her know ?

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edited Jun 03 at 20:00

Unfortunately you can't force her against her will. But what you can do is make dua for her as only Allah grants "imaan" to person whom he wills.

O you who believe! Spend of that with which We have provided for you, before a Day comes when there will be no bargaining, nor friendship, nor intercession. And it is the disbelievers who are the Zalimun (wrong-doers).[2:254]

You have warned her that should be enough in my opinion. If you look at Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) he was also a warner and giver of glad tidings.

And We send not the Messengers but as givers of glad tidings and as warners. So whosoever believes and does righteous good deeds, upon such shall come no fear, nor shall they grieve. [6:48]

You keep up duas as a good friend.

Allah is my witness, and may He forgive me, if I am wrong

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edited Jun 03 at 21:59

Shukran .....

(Jun 04 at 08:23) Sahara Sahara's gravatar image
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