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Regarding husbands relations?

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وعليكم السلام و رحمة الله وبركاته

No, not everything is okay. There are guidelines on sex between spouses too. These rules are found within the Qur'an/Sunnah.

  • Oral sex is considered more on the disliked (mukruh) side.
  • Anal sex is forbidden (direct evidence from hadith).
  • Sex in any position in the actual vagina is fine.
  • Sex during the woman's period is forbidden.

As for fetishes, these are okay depending on what they are.. (these actions should fall within halal limits and not be immoral / dangerous or unhealthy / contrary to what is natural).

Lastly, yes. It is okay to enjoy sex with your spouse. Allah سبحانه و تعالى permits it between spouses for procreation and even just for enjoyment. It is actually considered a good deed / charity.. because you are fulfilling the needs of each other and doing what is halal (whereas you'd get sin for what is haram).

answered 6236 iLove01's gravatar image

There is a difference in scholarly opinion on oral sex, some say its haram, others say it's makrooh (disliked) and warn of the dangers of getting certian fluids in the mouth, which are unclean once they leave the body (e.g. semen) - getting these in the mouth deliberately or through negligence would be haram! is not haraam to enjoy sex infact it is encouraged. it is an act that keeps the relationship between husband and wife intact. ...limitations -it is an Adha (a harmful thing for a husband to have a sexual intercourse with his wife while she is having her menses), therefore, keep away from women during menses and go not unto them till they are purified (from menses and have taken a bath). And when they have purified themselves, then go in unto them as Allaah has ordained for you (go in unto them in any manner as long as it is in their vagina). Truly, Allaah loves those who turn unto Him in repentance and loves those who purify themselves (by taking a bath and cleaning and washing thoroughly their private parts and bodies for their prayers)”

[al-Baqarah 2:222]

And Allaah knows best.

answered 955 Abdullah%20Shadab's gravatar image
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