Asalamu alaikum I am 26 I am getting very close to allah ta ala but there is something holding me back from just living normal I want to get married because I have needs and dont want sin but muslim women have very high standards they always looking for college grads and there family standards are thru the roof I am just about to give up on trying to marry a muslim sister Do I give up On the sisters and marry someone from another religion like a Christian girl they never care about how much money you have help I am confused ?
Wa laikum alsalam brother.....
Hold on brother......if allah love some from his slave....he goin to test him....
My be he testing you to see if you goin to be patient And say alhamdu lillah or you goin to be ungrateful and complain??
And my be allah hold avery good wife for you.......don't be urgent....
I'm 32 years old....and i did't marred !!!!!
I dont have money to marry muslim woman and thy all wont adoctor or bank imployee or some thind like that.....but i dont care.....-i,m amuslim and i'have allah is my god......he not goin to forget me or forget eney one...so whay i'm going to care????
Fasting .... Fastin...fasting...its very helpful and stay away from tv and moves and songs.....thy make the situation more difficult.......and take it advice from your brothe(me) DO NOT MARRY EXEPT A MUSLIM WOMAN.
allah help you....
Unfortunately marriage is more materliastic now days where first category is wealth.
There is a hadith in which a man was married for portion of Quran he memorized as he was ver poor. But muslims have gone away from the sunnah.
Look at marriages: music dancin money etc.