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Asslam o alykum, Dear Concerns,

First of all I beg to ALLAH SUBHANA for His mercy. I want to ask one thing happens very rare in world but as human being we commit mistakenly or attentional. Brother/Sister, My question is very short but I need answer very urgently. I talked to my Mother in law in a vulgar way asked to kiss and holding her breast to suck milk as a little baby. Since my childhood I don’t have mother. She died when I was only 6 years old. Every time I miss her a lot. So I respect my mother in law and love her like my real mother but I did this above mention for 3 nights on phone call not in real. I need to clarify some points please. 1. Is it unforgivable sin? 2. Is my wife Haram for me now? 3. Is there any Atonement or penalty?

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Asslam o alykum Ahsonaveed,

I must preface my answer to you by making it known that I am not Muslim. I am a follower of Yahshua (Isa).

I am sorry that you lost your mother at such a young age, that must be very difficult for you.

In my faith the only sin that is not forgivable is the blasphemy of the Ruach ha Kodesh (the Holy Spirit). This does not mean that what you have not done is not a serious sin, it is. You have dishonored your mother-in-law, her husband (if he is alive), your wife and God in Whose image you were created.

For those who trust in Yahshua for the forgiveness of their sins, HE has taken the punishment that you deserve for this sin. This is not a license to sin as some would say, on the contrary, the person to whom it is given saving faith in Yahweh seeks only to honor him and become more like Yahshua every moment of his life.

We must turn away from sinful desires of our body (the ways of Satan (Shatan)) and live our life by faith not by sight, in the Spirit and not in the flesh. In addition, I would ask forgiveness (if you haven't already) from your mother-in-law for the way you spoke to her. This is the respectful way to behave.

I hope this helps you.

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