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I love a Girl that is in my relations. And i love her alot. And i hope she also love me but i never tell her about my feelings. Phe main problem is that her parents are Rich and am belong to a middle class family. Her parents wants to merry her in a rich family. and i bnt live without her and also nt can break the rule of islam.Tell me what i should do?

asked 10 Amirkhan064's gravatar image

Aoa

  1. Love before marriage is haram.
  2. The consensus of the wife-to-be counts in her parents approval of marriage to you.

So it is up to her to convince her parents to get married to you. You can also go ask for her parents hand yourself if you wish.

Salam

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answered 8588 abdul_wasay's gravatar image

Thanks alot. But i know her parents will never be ready for this. Because they have attitude cause of money. I just want to ask you something is that is the right time to tell her my heart's feeling. If yes how ? I am afraiding. Because i dn't want to loose her.

(Jul 04 at 20:09) Amirkhan064 Amirkhan064's gravatar image

Either ask or don't ask simple as that. Declare your intention of marriage before you make yourself anymore suffer for this. The longer you delay the more you will suffer and in the end she will end up with someone else.

(Jul 04 at 21:14) abdul_wasay ♦ abdul_wasay's gravatar image

Oh! Thank u so much my firend. I can't loose her . I deffinatly prpose her when i meet her next time in he brother's Marriage.

(Jul 04 at 23:15) Amirkhan064 Amirkhan064's gravatar image

Is there is no rule to tell a girl directly about my feelings than to her parents. Is that is possible according to islam?

(Jul 06 at 03:00) Amirkhan064 Amirkhan064's gravatar image

Is there is no rule to tell a girl directly about my feelings than to her parents. Is that is possible according to islam?

(Jul 06 at 03:01) Amirkhan064 Amirkhan064's gravatar image

Meeting non-mahram alone is not allowed.

(Jul 06 at 09:07) abdul_wasay ♦ abdul_wasay's gravatar image

So it means there is no solution of this problem directly in short way.

(Jul 06 at 14:26) Amirkhan064 Amirkhan064's gravatar image

Ask her father. You're are making presumptions before you have even asked the father.

(Jul 08 at 11:18) abdul_wasay ♦ abdul_wasay's gravatar image
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It don't matter how rich you are you in life because we are all one born from the same seed. Dont worry if you were gono marry her then it will happen allah does everything for a reason some time allah likes making people wait because it make them go more closer to janah so if is gono happen then it will happend..

BE PATINCE... You'll Get The Reward

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answered 10 fas786's gravatar image

Thank you my friend. But just suggest me what should i do? She is my life my everythng. Just tell me is there is another way or any idea?

(Jul 07 at 13:41) Amirkhan064 Amirkhan064's gravatar image
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