there are a lot of muslim boys and girls open the bad websites,like sexual websites.... islamic leaders must create a way to help our muslim teenagers to get them out of opening sexual websites.....
Brothers, I absolutely hate it when people start blaming others for things such as Ubi has done.
Prostitution is the oldest profession in this world. It's a good feeling and people want it. Think of it like a natural drug. Since sex is allowed in Islam only through one way and that way is legal marriage with your wife one should control his/her urges and only feed this urge through the legal way.
Starting to blame people or groups or religions for something without fact or base is backbiting in my books.
Sex and pornography will be here till the end of time. You just have to control your urges and be strong in faith and avoid it. It's simple. It's a matter of willpower and a test from Allah.
Allah Ta'ala has created man with innate carnal desires, and has made Nikah a lawful and dignified avenue to discharge these desires.
Under normal circumstances, Nikah is Sunnah. If a man's sexual desires reach a stage where there is a strong fear that he will be involved in Zina (fornication), it will then be Waajib (compulsory) for him to make Nikah. At this juncture, shyness is no excuse. The man will have to approach his elders and request them to make arrangements for his Nikah.
Nikah should not be delayed or avoided for fear of poverty and want. In the Ahaadith, we are told that Nikah creates Barakah in one's sustenance. Allah Ta'ala has taken it upon himself to assist that person who performs Nikah in order to protect his chastity. Nikah is a simple and inexpensive affair in Islam. The errant customs of societies have made it difficult for others. The solution is to abandon all such customs and conduct the Nikah strictly according to the Sunnah. Nikah, then will not be a burden, rather it will release one from a burden.
The next step would be to guard the gaze. It is, thus, imperative to strictly guard the gaze. Where it is practical, avoid all such situations where ones gaze may fall on Ghayr Mahram (women not prohibited in Nikah) females. TV, books, magazines, internet, newspapers, should be shunned.
Should one's gaze accidentally fall on some woman, immediately lower the gaze. This is not difficult. It only requires some courage and training. Some points that may assist in this are:
May Allah Ta'ala save you and every Ummati from this evil, Aameen.
and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
Steps in overcoming masturbation
Be assured that you can be cured of your difficulty. Many have been, both male and female. And you can also be cured if you determine that it must be so. If you want to give it up, you need will power and determination. Rasulullah [sallallaahu alayhi wasallam] said, 'The Niyyat of a believer is better than the act.'
This determination is the first step. That is where we begin. Firstly, you must decide that you will end this practice and when you make that decision, the problem will be greatly reduced at once. But it must be more than a hope or a wish more than knowing that it is good for you. You must realize that this is a great evil and you have to want to give it up.
It must be actually a decision. If you truly make up your mind that you will be cured, then you will have the strength to resist any tendencies which you may have and any temptations which may come to you. Ask Allah to help you and give you strength and steadfastness to succeed.
After you have made this decision then observe the following specific guidelines.
The problem must be taken out of your mind for that is where it really exists. Your mind must be on other and more wholesome things. It is mentioned in a Hadith that a person is upon the way of his friend. (Bukhari, Tirmizi)
After these 2 steps, the individual needs to become sensitive to the situations and conditions which may cause a person to commit this vile act. Hence a person must guard himself from anything, which may trigger a desire for this act. By following these steps, a person gains the ability to gain victory from this act, hence the power to control this filthy practice is developed. Remember you need also a bit of will-power.
Brother,Islamic Leaders are trying to keep Muslims out from these disgusting things.... But bro non muslims especially jews are trying their best to take away Glorious Quran Majeed from our heart,from our senses,from our life,etc.. T.v and internet plays the vital role in Muslims to take out Glorious Quran Majeed from our heart.. Ya Allah,please give Hidayah to Non-Muslims..Aameen..