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asked 112 Sumona%20Sakil's gravatar image
edited Jul 17 '12 at 10:35

Sister, Prophet Muhammad {P.b.u.h} Said,dont wish/dream to die as it is Haram in Our Beloved Religion Islam.. Sister,i suggest you to Pray Salatul Istikhara {2 Rakats} and praise Allah {S.w.t} as much as you can{it doesn't needs any strength}..also u should consult a doctor for ur Strength.. Sister,u dont want to be like this as u are now,so sis,keep in mind that you must have to change.. Sister,u Should look for new good Man for your Marriage because the Man whom u loved left you after 7 days..then how would he hold/handle you in the whole life.. Sister,Be Practising Muslim..As In Glorious Quran,Allah{S.w.t} Says: Good Men Are for Good Women.. So,Insha-Allah,sis,if u will be good/practising Muslim,then Allah {S.w.t} will also Provide a Superb Spouse for you who will be Practising Muslim,good..,so..on.... Sis,life is full of ups and downs..we have to adjust in it.. As Prophet Muhammad {P.b.u.h} Said: The Universe {Duniya} is a Prison for the Believer and Heaven for Non-Believer.. Hope the Answer of Question.. Your Brother..~Uby~..

answered 1.2k518 Ubi's gravatar image

it is very comforting to see the answer. I am trying to get back to normal life again and fight better than before. Alhamdulilla! feeling a lot better than before. I know, it is life, all about fighting all the time. Thanks for your nice and comforting answer Brother. Pray for me to Allah subhanatala.

(Jun 27 '12 at 03:58) Sumona Sakil Sumona%20Sakil's gravatar image

Alhumdulillah..thats like a good Girl/Sister.. Sis,Insha-Allah,i will do dua for you.. Also.Remember your bro {me} in your Precious and Noble Duas.. Fee-Amaanillah.. Stay Blessed Sister!!

(Jun 27 '12 at 21:14) Ubi ♦ Ubi's gravatar image

sure brother :)

(Jul 04 '12 at 13:54) Sumona Sakil Sumona%20Sakil's gravatar image

dnt worry everything wll b alrite just have patience ,marry only that person who is chosen by ur parents,,,,,n let me tel u 1 And d most imptnt thing that shaytaan mardood wil cum to ur way everytime to disturb u n he alwys try to make u feel that no happiness is here 4 u,,but pls dnt 4get that Allah swt gifted u many things, e/g.parents, home to live n halaal rizq etc is very precious y think of suicide ,,,,no one cares 4 u after u,even that wrong person also wnt think y u did this,, and d fact is due to that wrong person only,frustration started in ur life,,, LIVE AND SEE WHAT THEY THINK AND DO, n im sure he wil jealous of u when u show n pretnd that u have no feelings for him ,,,,dnt care about these types of cheaters and let them go to hell,,y u forget ur parents and all those happiness that Allah has given to u..may b Allah has chosen much better life partner 4 u thts y u hav brkn relation with that person,,,i mean to say there r many things which we dnt know what is good for us n we pray for sumthing else but Allah knows well what is good n what is bad,,,and he always chose good things for good persons ,,,,,u just dnt think about past bcoz these things r not only for we r living here but we have to do our best for that real world where we all have to go .......... u only spend most of ur time with ur parents and read Quraan Paak by meaning n u wil sure find the better way.... ALLAH PAK send us here to take examination, and this is your exam time .TAKE CARE N BEST OF LUCK

answered 201 Shahid's gravatar image

Thank you brother. After that thing happened, i even misbehaved with my boss, which almost ruined my job too. I dont know why boys hav to be so strange. No matter from where they came (parents/friends proposal)...they run after u yrs after yrs, and just after they get a confirmation they take part!!.bt after a certain period they again came back and then i am pretty mad with them and say NO and take revenge....this is not only his case, this is most of the boys case. And in all the previous cases this is the exact thing happened!!..i dont knw, the prob is with me or them!?

(Jul 14 '12 at 03:01) Sumona Sakil Sumona%20Sakil's gravatar image


As Islam does not allow adultery or boyfriends/girlfriends. Now this sin, now leads to another sin, which is no prayer. You see, prayer is what people use. It is their way of talking to Allah the almighty. I feel relaxed if I'm in distress and I need help. If your boyfriend is the reason that you stopped prayer, then you might be further away from Islam. However, Allah is very forgiving. Take this as an opportunity to learn from your mistakes and ask Allah for forgiveness. As long as you won't have another boyfriend and commit Zina, Allah will forgive you. This is the path of Satan, zina and boyfriends/girlfriends. Surat An-Nur, (24:30-31). Sadly, I have forgotten the verse and surah for the following. But when the dead are resurrected, the first question Allah asks, "Did you pray?" If yes, then you are fine. However, if no then he orders you to bow down. In this case, you can't since your spine will be a metal rod. Just stay to praying and ask for Allah's forgiveness. All will be fine.



answered 10 ABDLOD96's gravatar image

Dear Brother, Our intension was not to make BF/GF relationship. From the begining he wanted to marry me, i was clear on that. And i am not in any intension to make bf-gf relation. Cause i am a grown woman and waiting to start life ASAP. I think it was not haram in islam what has been happened between him and me. It was a proposal within friend circle. And boys are always strange, they chase you to hav u all of their life, but when you just say YES, they took a power position. This same thing happened to him. I saw many man like this (whether Parents proposal or friends proposal etc).

(Jul 14 '12 at 02:51) Sumona Sakil Sumona%20Sakil's gravatar image

And everybody have a direction of life, if anybody lose it they are broken. My direction of life is Praying to Allah Subhanatala no matter what is the situation is. What was happened to me was a nervous break down. Alhamdulillah! i am fully recovered now. And i begging to Allah subhanatala for forgiveness for all the strange things i thought in that period. Anyway, i a human, InshaAllah, Allah will forgive me.

(Jul 14 '12 at 02:54) Sumona Sakil Sumona%20Sakil's gravatar image

Within the good things of this life there are severe tests of one's faith in God. Likewise, in the terrible events of life there lies test as is mentioned in the verse Surah Al-Baqarah [2:155] "And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient"

Allah says in Quran Surah Al-Baqara [2:153] “O you who have believed, seek help through patience and prayer. Indeed, Allah is with the patient.”

Allah says in Quran [94:6] “Verily, along every hardship comes relief”

Allah says in Quran [39:53] Say: "O My servants, who have transgressed against themselves (by committing evil deeds and sins)! Despair not of the Mercy of Allah, verily Allah forgives all sins. Truly, He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful”. In other words Never lose hope in the Mercy of Allah.

answered 0543147 UnknownUser's gravatar image

:) Sure, Allah Subhanatala is most kind and forgiving, All the praise be to Allah subhanatala. Thank you very much brother for the comforting answer consisting of precious aya's of Quran. Pray for me to Allah Subhanatala. :)

(Jul 12 '12 at 03:00) Sumona Sakil Sumona%20Sakil's gravatar image

As-Salamualeykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh to you sister Sumona. Alhamdulillah for having the courage to post this, Alahamdulillah also for the two special gift Allah swt has given to us(The Muslims) i.e The QUR'AN and The HADITH. Alhamdulillah again, due to ALLAH (swt) for keeping us alive especially you. In Islam there is at least a solution to all issues. On the authority of Jaabir Ibn Abdullaah he said: “The Prophet (saw) would instruct us to pray for guidance in all of our concerns, just as he would teach us a chapter from the Qur'an. The Prophet (saw) would say: "If any of you intend to undertake a matter then let him pray two supererogatory units (two rak'ah naafilah) of prayer and after which he should supplicate: “O Allah, I seek Your counsel by Your knowledge and by Your power. I seek Your strength and I ask You from Your immense favors, for verily You know while I do not and You are the Knower of the unseen. O Allah, if You know this affair (here you mention your need) to be good for me in relation to my religion, my life, and end, then decree and facilitate it for me, and bless me with it, and if You know this affair to be ill for me towards my religion, my life, and end, then remove it from me and remove me from it, and decree for me what is good wherever it be and make me satisfied with such.” Sister Sumona, one who seeks guidance from his creator and consults his fellow believers and then remains firm in his resolve does not regret, for Allah has said …and consult them in the affair. Then when you have taken a decision, put your trust in Allah… Q3:159 In-sha-Allah if you do this, you will for-ever be grateful to Allah.

answered 131 Baky_31's gravatar image

thank you brother. As i already said, i am blessed by Allah subhanatala with enomous things, only thing creating problem is my relationship or way to marry a good person. You know it should not be said too, may Allah forgive me. I started various Amols for my marraige 2 yrs ago and for be suring about that man almost 1 yr ago, also i start praying salatul Istikhara for about 4 months. he is neither coming up, nor going back, it is becoming complicated day by day. And i am suffering in decision. Also i cannot like other boys. People live with hope, i am too, waiting for Allah to be kind to me.

(Jul 04 '12 at 14:04) Sumona Sakil Sumona%20Sakil's gravatar image

actually im tired of being hurted constantly for relationship and trying to escaping it....thats why im losing my strength to do anything......for killing pain, i started to do nafl fasting, it worked, i was more aligned with praying too, but cant do it longer as i got weak

(Jul 04 '12 at 16:37) Sumona Sakil Sumona%20Sakil's gravatar image
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