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Kindly tell me if its ok to have pregnant lady ultrasound to detect baby sex, and what if found female baby in womb,can we go for abortion, as already we have daughter,and we wish for boy.

asked Aug 01 '12 at 06:36 jawed iqbal 511 jawed%20iqbal's gravatar image

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 In the Pre-Islamic era they used to bury their female offspring after birth; today you are thinking of aborting your female offspring before birth. It is one and same thing - a murder.

I decided to address the second part of your question (wishing to have a boy) separately, for your consumption and for the benefit of all. I'd like to draw your attention to Surah Ash-Shura', ayah 49-50 which is translated to read, '---He bestoweth sons to whom He will and He bestoweth daughters to whom He will; Or He mingles sons and daughters to whom He will, and He maketh baron whom He will. Lo! He is Knower, Powerful.'   The above ayah leaves no doubt that it is Allah alone who decides the progeny, factly speaking, it all stands decided even for those who are yet not born (till the day of Qiyamah). All one can do is to pray to Allah and then be content with whatever He decides for you.    At the same time my advise to every one is to learn Quran (and sunnah), for in this lies the peace of mind and solace for hearts.
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answered Aug 01 '12 at 07:40 MAK ♦ 4066 MAK's gravatar image
reverted Aug 01 '12 at 16:45 Al Ummat ♦ 01566 Al%20Ummat's gravatar image

Allah does not burden a person with that which it can not bare . Meaning if he knew you couldn't handle it it would not be given to you . Also here is something to consider: the creation of each one of us is created in his/ hers mothers belly. For 40 days in the form of a seed. Then a clot of blood for a like period. Then a muscle of flesh for a like period. Then there is sent to him the angle who blows the breath of life into him \ her. And whom is commanded about 4 matters. 1. Means of livelihood. 2. Life span 3. Actions 4. Happy or unhappy. This is before birth and life exists before birth. Nchallah this helps

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answered Nov 29 '12 at 01:10 sadie ♦ 1.2k7 sadie's gravatar image

You are all mistaken... That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. No baby is killed if it is not born, wake up and smell the roses I say...

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answered Nov 27 '12 at 22:13 Only (suspended) Only's gravatar image

abortion is an unpleasant and stressful experience, although notice that in the country of Romania, it was once outlawed and infact when abortion was legalized crime levels dropped considerably over the next two decades. The same example can be made for gun crime in the poorer Harlem, Bronx areas in America.

In the following countries, abortion is available

Burundi, Comoros, Eritrea, Ethiopia, Mozambique, Rwanda, Seychelles, Kenya, Tanzania, Uganda, Zambia, Zimbabwe, Cameroon, Chad, Equatorial Guinea,Algeria, Morocco, Sudan, Tunisia, South Africa, Botswana, Namibia, Swaziland, Benin, Burkina Faso, Gambia, Ghana, Guinea, Liberia, Mali, Nigeria, Sierra Leone, Togo, Japan, South Korea, Bhutan, India, Maldives, Pakistan, Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan, Nepal, Tajikistan, Turkmenistan, Uzbekistan, Laos, Malaysia, Thailand, Cambodia, Singapore, Vietnam, Cyprus, Israel, Jordan, Kuwait, Oman, Saudi Arabia, Armenia, Azerbaijan, Bahrain, Georgia, Turkey, Finland, Iceland, United Kingdom, Albania, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Croatia, Greece, Italy, Macedonia, Montenegro, Portugal, Serbia, Slovenia, Spain, Liechtenstein, Luxembourg, Austria, Belgium, France, Germany, Netherlands, Switzerland, Bahamas, Barbados, Grenada, Jamaica, Saint Kitts and Nevis, Saint Lucia, Saint Vincent and the Grenadines, Trinidad and Tobago, Cuba, Belize, Costa Rica, Panama, Mexico, Bolivia, Brazil, Colombia, Ecuador, Peru, Uruguay, Guyana, Canada, USA, New Zealand, Australia, Fiji, Papua New Guinea, Vanuatu, Nauru, Cook Islands, Niue, Samoa.

In these countries abortion is either available upon request or if there are health complications or other issue arising for the welfare of the offspring.

Ultimately, it should not be a government, family, religious or national issue, but a decision for the women concerned. That is all I have to comment on this topic.

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answered Nov 27 '12 at 21:19 Diwan 232 Diwan's gravatar image

. . . it depends where you live. In Spain, New Zealand, Japan and elsewhere it is quite reasonable to have an early term abortion if you think it will help you with your own options and material and mental health later in life. When you believe you truly want children then have them, although abortion is always a difficult issue for an intelligent woman. Ultimately there are different laws concerning abortion in different countries, as I said. Do whatever is best for you but try and make an educated decision.

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answered Nov 26 '12 at 03:52 Diwan 232 Diwan's gravatar image

It is one of the greatest sins and you should not do it.

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answered Aug 22 '12 at 17:52 Ismael124 101 Ismael124's gravatar image

Sister,Remember,Once a time you also was a daughter of Some-one..

Also Sister,have a look in this Poem..

"Diary of a Baby"

15 June: I got attached with ovary.

17 June: I'm a tissue now.

30 June: Mom said to dad,"You're going to be a father"

Mom and Dad Are Very Happy.

15 July: My food is what my mom eats.

15 Sept:I can feel my heartbeat.

14 Oct:I have little hands,legs, head and a stomach.

13 Nov: Today I was in an ultrascan.

Wow! I m a girl.

14 Nov: I was Dead!

My mom and dad killed me.. . Why? Is it just because I was a girl? People love to have A Mother, A Wife,then Why Not a Daughter??

Why was i killed?

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answered Aug 22 '12 at 02:57 Ubi ♦ 1.2k417 Ubi's gravatar image

Sister,firstly Sex determination is Haram...... Also,Prophet Muhammad {P.b.u.h} Said: Dont Hate Daughters as i am also the father of four daughters.. I had Also listened that When Allah {S.w.t} is happy with the people,then he sends Rain and when Allah {S.w.t} is much happy,then he Sends Daughters.. And you say that You would Abort Your Daughter as you already have One Daughter..

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answered Aug 22 '12 at 02:54 Ubi ♦ 1.2k417 Ubi's gravatar image

That is a great SIN as is up to Allah to give you a daughter or a son.You should be grateful for what HE gives you.

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answered Aug 12 '12 at 16:20 Luna 234 Luna's gravatar image

I think if you did this you would no longer be a muslim - not sure. It is the gravest sin you can commit, possibly. Read Quran and you will see - the female child will be asked for what sin she was killed. This is a very serious matter.

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answered Aug 12 '12 at 11:55 Noor 1333 Noor's gravatar image
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