Hi Everybody,

Allah said that he created us and the (djinns) to adore him ''وما خلقت الإنس والجن إلا ليعبدون'', I want to understand firstly what realy means to daore Allah; and why Allah was in need of this adoration? I can't be like Allah want me to be (for example i can't put a hijab cuz our days we can't find a job with hijab on our heads, another example, I can't wake up everday early to do salat alfajr) it's so hard for me to execute what he demand and it's make me sad because it's over my mental and physic capacity...so I want a good prouf that Allah exist(don't tell me that coran is a proof; because it's assebled by mans and i'm not convinced by it's veracity; so I want scientific and logic prouf, and if we admet that he exist that's mean that he is the most perfect existence, so why our world is very horrible and imperfect, just tell me why and why Allah have created all this) and please tell me a good reason to adore him after all that, I'm serious and i realy want to understand, i've tried to kill my self because i'm fed up to live without knowing why and such of people gave me such stupid reason, they just tell me ''we are here to adore god, to do something beautiful''' but why????, I don't want this life, and i think that's i have to total right to do to my self what i want if it's dont touch the other, so why i don't have the right to kill my self instead of telling me that doing this will send me to hell......Thank you in advance and help me please, I'm just a human just like you...

Sorry for my imperfect english, because i speak it just a little bit, normaly I speak french and arabic that's al

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to who voted -1, we are not here to judge people, we are here to give answers to our confused souls, other than you are perfect?

(Aug 29 '12 at 21:10) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

@MadMe the voting up and voting down is just for what you said, judging, the point of it is for the distribution of karmas through the users. The voting up or down, the theory of doing that is that good questions go to the top and bad questions go to the bottom. There is no reason to be upset, whatever vote kind you get Insha'Allah you still get an answer.

(Aug 30 '12 at 07:24) Al Ummat ♦ Al%20Ummat's gravatar image

You ses? because of this question I believe now in God and his Messenger...that learned me that no one have the right to judge someone or undervalue his thoughts and his way of thinking

(Aug 31 '12 at 06:21) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

ALHAMDULILLAH! Sister I am too happy! May Allah bless you with the greatest blessings for turning back to Him! @Adbuallah2011 Thank you so much for your help as always brother! I love you both very much!

(Aug 31 '12 at 07:03) cocolia42 cocolia42's gravatar image

ALHAMDULILLAH!!! thts Y I did!!!!!!!!!!!

(Sep 06 '12 at 09:30) Asifmuslim Asifmuslim's gravatar image

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...Certainely. But in other hand I think that the whole Koran isnot from allah that why we find lot of contradictory and anacceptable things like the fact that only Mohammed was authorised to have more then 4 woman or he was authorised to marry the woman of his adopted son (this is realy...i think taht sometimes he recites his own desires)and also the fact that man can have woman as slave (ma malakt aymanokom)... Aso Mohammed was a subject of bad spell and he had some; if can say "hallucinations" as he tought that he had sex with Aicha while it's wasn't the case...so who told us that is in this period or any other period all the verses he recieted was correct or true (i mean from allah)??? )(maybe one day he just dreamed or had a psychological trouble...as he is not perfect like all humans no? Most of muslim talk about him like if was perfect and he did the one who wrote and assemble the coran, also we know that many part of Koran was lost (in fact we can't assimil a message if it's not complete)..asembled by man (we can doubt its veracity)...

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well, first if the quran isn't from the creator of the universe so how Mohamed knew that the dead sea is the lowest point of the earth? second, all of what you said is just doubts and if you look on the internet you will find many proper answers for your questions, i don't like to go in more details, but you don't have any proof about what you said you asked for a proof that quran from the god and i did, so let's agree about a point, you are opening many subjects in one comment how i could chase all of that without even agreed about the first pont

(Aug 31 '12 at 03:53) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

look, Muslims said bible is corrupted this is a useless phrase without evidence, we gather evidences that christians couldn't asnwers, we prove errors, contradictions and illogical things, you claim the quran is corrupted give me one evidene for your claim or it would be considered as nothing

(Aug 31 '12 at 03:54) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

and for sure claioming that the prophet married his son's wife is a big lie, Zaied "زيد" isn't the prophet's son, don't believe everything orientalists tell you

(Aug 31 '12 at 04:06) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

when I said certainely, I meant that Im agree with you on the dead sea and some scientific things...I said also that the whole Koran is not from God I mean that there is just parts of Koran which is it..So I can say YES..some verses is From Allah Sorry if ask a lot questions but they was just as exemple in order you to understand me

(Aug 31 '12 at 04:11) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

I said that he married his ADOPTED son's wife...In my point of view if someone adopted a son and this ADOPTED son got married, the one should considere his adopted son's wife like his daughter no? adopted or not adopted it's the same thing for me, we should respect his wife and considere her as a daughter

(Aug 31 '12 at 04:19) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

so, could i conclude that you finally has no doubt about the god's existence?

(Aug 31 '12 at 04:19) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

listen dear, the holy quran from A to Z is from the god, and there are many proofs about that i just pick to you two of them, but i have tens of proofs from quran and hadith that it's a word of god, who claimed another thing should provide evidence or a proof? do you have one?

(Aug 31 '12 at 04:20) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

i just have seen your comment about the adopted son's wife let's post the verse to explain it more chapter 33 verse 4, 5. Allah said

(Aug 31 '12 at 04:25) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

" And He has not made your wives whom you declare unlawful your mothers. And he has not made your adopted sons your [true] sons. That is [merely] your saying by your mouths, but Allah says the truth, and He guides to the [right] way, Call them by [the names of] their fathers; it is more just in the sight of Allah . But if you do not know their fathers - then they are [still] your brothers in religion and those entrusted to you. And there is no blame upon you for that in which you have erred but [only for] what your hearts intended. And ever is Allah Forgiving and Merciful

(Aug 31 '12 at 04:26) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

above verses revealed that allah forbade adoption why?? because it's changing for the truth and causes in many errors like that a guy could marry a girl who is really his sister but because of adoption she isn't his sister in law also a guy may not be allowed to marry a girl because of adoption she becomes his sister in names so to avoid this troubles allah forbade adoption

this was the introduction, let's go to the verse you meant verse 33:37 allah said

(Aug 31 '12 at 04:29) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

And [remember, O Muhammad], when you said to the one on whom Allah bestowed favor and you bestowed favor, "Keep your wife and fear Allah ," while you concealed within yourself that which Allah is to disclose. And you feared the people, while Allah has more right that you fear Him. So when Zayd had no longer any need for her, We married her to you in order that there not be upon the believers any discomfort concerning the wives of their adopted sons when they no longer have need of them. And ever is the command of Allah accomplished

(Aug 31 '12 at 04:29) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

zaied was a poor man while zainab his wife was too rich woman, and he usually felt that she treated him badly because of his poverty and she wasn't happy too because of she used to live as a rich so zaied went to the prophet to ask him that he wills to divorce her and the prophet teold him not to divorce her, till allah forbade adoption and revealed to the prophet zaied will divorce zainab and then you will marry her

(Aug 31 '12 at 04:38) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

then zaied divorced her and the prophet married her to give the people a practical lesson that the adopted son isn't a real son and the evidence that that the prophet married zainab, so he removed any doubt in the people hearts so the marriage was for learning people not more and so that allah finished the verse by saying"in order that there not be upon the believers any discomfort concerning the wives of their adopted sons when they no longer have need of them. And ever is the command of Allah accomplished"

(Aug 31 '12 at 04:40) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

you see how you were unjust with the prophet who spent 23 years of his age suffering, struggling and facing troubles to make you a muslim to enter the heaven and then you are offending him :(

(Aug 31 '12 at 04:45) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image
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my bro allah does not care of his adore but allah knows what is good for humanity. To adore allah is not only for allah but actually a practice of being a good human being if u adore allah u also obey his rules & allah knows what is gone bad by humans if does not obey the rules.

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it's true that god wants us to adore him on the other hand he said he is needless.he doesn't need and want any thing. so why does he want us to adore him ?

here's the answer: adoring god doesn't have a benefit for god but it has benefit for our selves. those who still have pure souls enjoy adoring god because they know the true meaning of being with god and talking to him. in my language we call these people AREF.for example MOLANA was an AREF. they know the true goal of this world.

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