assalamualaikum..tommorow its 1 year ovear to i'm geeting married alhamdulillah..actuallyy my question is my husband is not giving importance to what he is giving to his mother i mean to my mother in law.ofcourse i love and respect my in laws, but actually the exactly problem is he iz not sharing anything with me if i ask any about his office matter or if he recieve any cll from his office wether i'm asking whoes phone suddenly shouted me and angry with.,for ex:he called his mother not infront of me he called in outside its makes me absolutely sad and cry if i asking what you people talking about means again he angry me and throwing what he getting in his hand..tell me please wether i'm asking wrong question with him or what?

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Assalamuallaikoum,

You are not asking the wrong question and it's your right to try to know what is happening. But may be he has this habits since long time and he still didn't get to use to share everything with you. Go slowly with him and try to explain to him that you are partners and you should share everything together either bad or good things. That his problems are yours and your problems are his. Just be patient and don't put too much pressure on him. Allah will help you.

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Assalamuallaikoum,

You are not asking the wrong question and it's your right to try to know what is happening. But may be he has this habits since long time and he still didn't get to use to share everything with you. Go slowly with him and try to explain to him that you are partners and you should share everything together either bad or good things. That his problems are yours and your problems are his. Just be patient and don't put too much pressure on him. Allah will help you.

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Assalamu alaikum

Are you married already? If you are not already married then you should be inquiring about His religion properly before you do get married.

May Allaah give you both the best for your religion and your hereafter, amen.

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