i was in a relationship with a married man since last 2 years.im also married woman ,and i got pregnent wid him.i have a girl 1 year old,now i regret wat i have done.i stopped all communication wid him and now repending to allah for the wrong i commited.my husband doesnt know all this,he think its his child.plz suggest me what i should do.im repending sincerly.should i tell my husband also?in that case im sure he will divorce me.i am hating myself for the mistake i did.can my husband bring after my child/?

asked 10111 aysha's gravatar image

If Allaah has concealed you, then do not break that concealment that He has bestowed upon you, and do not tell your husband or anyone else anything about what happened. Your repentance is regret and righteousness and doing good deeds.

As for the child, he is to be named after your husband, and that is not cancelled out unless he rejects, because the basic principle is that the child belongs to the marital bed, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him).

(Jan 01 '13 at 02:05) rehanalam rehanalam's gravatar image

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I'll explain futher when you get more knowledge in the verses you say Allah will not forgive. Repent means accept the punishment to purify ? Repent is tawbah. Look up the meaning man. Look up the Arabic meaning ... the Quran meaning...then the English meaning. Then compare it to your definition...

Tawbah / repentance is Not just a verbal thing. Read and learn it's Islamic terminology and how it's done. And read for your sake. Because your understanding to it and how is very very wrong. You told a person to consult a Alima for a sin. You do the same to learn what Tawbah repenting is. I read your other answer to a similar question.. you said pray Allah to forgive you. You didnt tell her go get stoned/whipped now to purify?..lol

I can't learn from someone who doesnt know the correct meanings of words. And that has his own interpitations of the Quranic verses.. and that has his own beliefs of when Allah will forgivee or not as you mentioned earlier (I believe...etc) Bump or don't bump. It doesn't really matter to me. I wont bother reading on this question and replying again it's going to be a long useless loop.

Good luck & Salam.

answered 1603 petrolhead's gravatar image
edited Dec 29 '12 at 19:05

The above is what I understood However Allah (S.W.T) knows best, so if one say he/she can repent from heart and he/she can be free from this sin then he/she may research further.

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