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When my sister travels i know that she cant travel wtihout a mahram.. but if i act as a mahram for her so she can travel i am sexualy atracted to her and the temptation is very high when we are alone together. . i know that is forbiden to have sex wtih her and i pray that i dont sin like that but it is very hard when that situation with travel.. is it haram for me to be mahram for her because of this. how can i refuse to be mahram for her when she needs because i cant explain the real reason without destroy the family. |
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Amuslim female can't travel with out a mahram even she can't go to hajj with out amahram. A mahram to any female must fullfil this qualification 1.it should be impossible for him to marry her through out her life. 2.islam made this{the mahram}to protect the female frm any haram action that could be done to her by other strangers in her journey so if her mahram afraid that he could do something wrong to her he can't be mahram to her becouse islam made mahram fear of fitna. So if ali don't afraid to tell her that u fear fitna and let u not to involve any action that can lead u to disobey Allah and follow satan's thorny path. Or you can find any other justification that will not damage her mind and your family. Or u just tell your sister in private that u can't follow her becouse of this and this and pursuid her the reality that we r running from jahanama{the hell} or u can ask a islamic scholar to present u the reasons why islam made mahram and explain to her that u can't be mahram to her. Or let some else follow her who is mahram to her like her father,mother or any one of ur siblings. Jazakallah brother,may allah protect you from fornicatiom |
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