I'm a convert and I'm wondering if you can tell me the Islamic way to respond to adultery in my family (who are not Muslim)?
My grandfather had Alzheimer's Disease (a terminal disease that makes a person forget who anyone is, eventually killing the person) and he was living in a medical care home for 3 years.
My grandmother began committing adultery about a year ago while my grandfather was still alive and she was still married to him.
My grandfather died last week and his funeral is this weekend. If the adulterous man my grandmother is in a relationship with comes to the funeral, how should I respond as a Muslim? Ignore him or confront him and calmly tell him I think adultery is immoral? Please help!
I'm not an angry person but I'm afraid my grief and disgust towards their actions, will not allow me to even stay at the funeral if the adulterer is there.
I know my situation is unusual and I pray to God that you may have an answer to help me.
Thank you and may you be blessed in this life and the hereafter!