A Sunni Muslim Woman (26 years old) from Morocco I work with, who I asked out but she turned me down because I'm not Muslim continues sending very mixed signals. She says she is a strict Muslim, but I suspect that a lot of her behavior is not very Muslim. Can unmarried Muslim behave like this according to the Koran? If not, please explain.
- She constantly grabs and slaps my butt
- She often, at least once a day at work grabs or smacks my crotch. She has also grabbed another guy's crotch at work.
- She talks about sex A LOT and asks questions about my penis size, shape, etc.
- She has a very large chest and will often lean against me while pressing it on me or she will grab my arm so she can lean on it.
- She will shake her chest in a provocative manner in front of all us male employees.
- She has lifted her blouse to show me her bra, which can barely contain her breasts.
- In the changing room she'll change with me in it and take off her blouse and ask me if I like her breasts.
- She'll lean against me and grind her butt against my crotch.
- A few male coworkers will slap her butt and she lets it happen and laughs it off.
There is more, but this about covers it. I am attracted to her, and also very frustrated with this contradictory behavior. She tells me she won't date me because I am not Muslim, but then she behaves in what I believe is very non Muslim behavior for women.
Please tell me, is she behaving like a proper Muslim woman (which she claims to be)? If yes or no, please explain.