Salaam everyone, I was just wondering, if you're Muslim.. how does a man propose to you is it the same as everyone else, get on one knee and ask for marriage? Or is it different?

Just wondering hope there is answers, thank you brothers & sisters.

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edited Dec 15 '12 at 09:38 Irfan Alam ♦ 1.0k1935 Irfan%20Alam's gravatar image

Assalaamu Alaikum dear, please read this entirely.

If a man feels that his heart is inclined towards a particular woman, he should follow the way that is permitted in Islam, which is marriage. If a person intends to marry a woman, he has to propose marriage to her through her wali (guardian), who is her father if he is alive, or one of her other close relatives.

It is not permissible for a man to propose marriage to a woman who is not his mahram through ways that are not permissible according to sharee’ah, such as getting to know her or meeting her frequently or getting in touch with her often and speaking on the phone; these are means through which Iblees causes people to sin and which lead to regrettable consequences.

It is not permissible for a person to justify his relationship with a girl by saying that she is like his sister and other silly excuses. You have to follow the proper channels as prescribed in Islam to marry this woman. When you propose marriage, it is o.k. if you try to win her over by giving her a gift through her wali. We ask Allaah to give us and you strength and to keep us away from haraam things. And Allaah is the Source of strength.

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Thank you! Very amazing answer, may Allah as well give you strength, good health & keep you away from haram things!

(Dec 18 '12 at 22:01) Maz2728 Maz2728's gravatar image

No, Its not the way to propose. If you like someone and wanted to marry her, then tell your parents to ask her parents for marriage. Her parent will ask the girl about this. And if she will agree, then further action will be done.

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Thank you very much!

(Dec 18 '12 at 22:01) Maz2728 Maz2728's gravatar image
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