As I said earlier, I broke up with my boyfriend, I feel much better without him, even if I miss and be with him and his family sometimes. He has threatened me several times but I have never bothered me about it, he's really jealous and he thinks I should stop and hang out with my guy friends just for his sake. He has said that he believes what he is saying and going to kill me. I'm stubborn and do not care what others say. But when he started threatening my family and he knows where they live then I took it seriously and police he reported. The last we talked with each other, he said clearly that the police reports he he will find me and kill me. For about 2 months ago so I have every home of a girl friend and I were there about 3 hours ago, I dragged home, she lives quite near me. The day after she came home to me and told me that a Swedish man came to her house and he had a gun and was looking for me and there was a man outside my dad's port i dont live with my dad. The same day I called my x boyfriend and I put him against the wall and asked if it was he who was behind it, I got no direct answer, he smiled and then he became serious and said no it was not me. I do not trust my friend, she has lied to me several times. Everything she says I have not seen it. Last night I had a strange dream. I have a big brother but does not live with us. I dreamed about him. I know that you can not tell the bad dreams but I'm confused and want to know if it is related to my x, anyway my brother chased me and had a gun and he was terribly angry and really wanted to get hold of me and kill me and I ran and told people that they should call the police etc etc.. Dreams are strange and the strange thing is I thought about it all today, it tends not to be so otherwise that I think of a dream all day no.I got an idea in my head that maybe I should meet with him and argue with him and I do not want to go back to him. Want to add that I have his arm clock that he got from his mom, the clock is a little worn and it was me who did it. He has destroyed some stuff from me too. Please advice

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This question contains dream interpretation, personal problem without any need of Islamic solution. It may be deleted. Other moderators comment please...

(Dec 16 '12 at 13:17) Irfan Alam ♦ Irfan%20Alam's gravatar image

"Problem..." Is not a question. Please change the title.

(Dec 16 '12 at 13:48) Aaqib J Aaqib%20J's gravatar image

@Aaqib j: Suggest an appropriate title... I will change it.

(Dec 16 '12 at 20:35) Irfan Alam ♦ Irfan%20Alam's gravatar image

Something like this if you want, brother:

"What to do when you're being threatened by your ex-boyfriend?".

(Dec 17 '12 at 22:44) Aaqib J Aaqib%20J's gravatar image

salam sis according to me you should not talk to him. Just leave it all to allah. If your ex was a muslim try to explain it to him what our religion teaches us. Tell him that he is just obssesed with you and true love can never be there before nikkah if hes a non-muslim then i suggest be strong and talk to either of your parents and let me clear it allah will help you only if you have truely repented and not that you are bored of this guy now......

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edited Dec 16 '12 at 11:19

If you are above 18 years, then one and only one answer to your question is that, YOU MUST MARRY SOMEONE AS SOON AS....

you talk to other boy which is forbidden according to Islam, you have current boyfriend, ex boyfriend..... What is this?? Aren't you Muslim? Don't you know these are bad works?? Don't you fear from Allah??

If you need man then marry someone. And do whatever you want with your husband. But why are doing these type of forbidden activity. BE A TRUE MUSLIM, REPENT YOUR SIN, FEAR FROM ALLAH AND IF YOU NEED MAN THEN MARRY AS EARLY AS....

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answered 1.0k1935 Irfan%20Alam's gravatar image

I thought the whole yesterday that I want to meet him and talk to him. Thank you so much for your replies, it really helps, he is NOT a Muslim and not his family either. I have a sick mother and a father who has raped me when I was a child, so for those of you who answered me something to talk to my parents and it will never happen and you who answered that I'm getting married I NEVER WILL MARRY, I WILL DIE SINGLE THAT I HAVE promised ME. Maybe it's wrong what I say but I do not regret it and I know that God understands it.

Easy for you to say, you do not know what I've gone through. I hate my life.

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oh mullat m so sorry. I guess you should offer salatul tasbeeh sorry that i cant explain how to offer it right now but you can check on net. I think you should talk to your brother than if hes a nice guy. I will pray for you. Pray for your dad too that he changes himself from bad to good. TO ALL MY MUSLIM HUMANS PLEASE PRAY FOR MULLAT AND HER MOTHER if you view this question.

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It's fine you do not need to apologize, I appreciate that you answered me. I do not know how to do it but I'll find it. No, I do not have anyone to talk to, and the worst thing I know is that I hate to talk to men about my problems. Thank you very much....

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answered 102 mullat's gravatar image

hey sis i am a girl... If you really wanna talk u can give me your id or i will give you mine. I dnt know much about islam but can help you.

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answered 4418 scorpion%20anee's gravatar image

I appreciate, you can give me.

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answered 102 mullat's gravatar image

i get ure e mail addres...and i send a mail to u. i wonder if u get something from me?

and to "irfan Alam" I DONT KNOW HOW TO DO THAT!

question from "Aaqib J" I never take for me when he threatens and goes from there only. But still feels like everything he has said he will, and do, but I'm too stubborn and believe it.

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@mullat: If you want to comment on any answer provided, just click below that answer on ADD NEW COMMENT, and then comment. Don't use answer field for comment....

(Dec 18 '12 at 04:01) Irfan Alam ♦ Irfan%20Alam's gravatar image

Mullat may ALLAH SUBHANA WAT'ALA help you. You just have to beg your parent because Prophet Muhammad sallallahu allaihi wasallam said you paradise and hell is under the feet of your parent.you must not seperate yourself from you parent when they need you.ask your father to ass for forgiveness and LABAHSA TOHUR INSHALLAH TO YOUR MOTHER.AMIN

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