Dear Friends, Imade the biggest mistake of my Life. A few days ago i had Sex with a girlfriend . After we fineshed she told me that we had anal Sex for a Short time about 30-60 seconds. I didnt knew it. When i Asked her why she doesnt say anything she just Said she wants to try it for First Time and thought that i knew what i was doing. It was definitly not my purpose to do that. I went quickly to the bathromm and made a ghusl and prayed all the Time. So now i cant sleep anymore and dont know what to do.

asked 101 Kara's gravatar image

You are feeling guilty of making anal sex.... Aren't you feeling guilty of doing sex with the girl????

(Dec 18 '12 at 06:36) Irfan Alam ♦ Irfan%20Alam's gravatar image

Yes i do sir :-(

(Dec 18 '12 at 07:42) Kara Kara's gravatar image

Repent alot!!! Humans make mistakes! But ask yourself... are you feeling ashamed of having anal sex or the whole thing... Allah knows what is in ur mind and if u r truely sorry then Allah will inshAllah forgive you.

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answered 655 Bubbles123's gravatar image

the only thing you can do is repent ... Offer salatul tasbeeh...check the net for procedure of salatul tasbeeh.... But allah may accept your repentance only if you repent from heart.

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answered 4418 scorpion%20anee's gravatar image

I repent it really from the Heart ! I am praying and hoping for forgivenes every Day. I think this Situation changed my Life positive .

(Dec 18 '12 at 17:50) Kara Kara's gravatar image

What you have done is zina.Havent you read it in the post that sex before marriage is haram?just pray to ALLAH SUBHANA WAT'ALA TO FORGIVE YOU YOUR sins and repent also ALLAH SUBHANA WAT'ALA LOVE A SERVENT WHO COMMITS SIN AND HE REPENT AND ASK FORGIVENESS.OFFER TWO RAKATS SALAT AND ASK FORGIVENESS AFTER THE RAKATS.hope the lady is not a virgin because if it is it is a big problem.immediately you had that sex,there will be signs at BAYTIL MAMUR,AL HARSHU OF ALLAH SUBHANA WAT'ALA,SIDIRATUL MUNTAHA and some of places in heaven that who has become a misfortunate fellow again in the world.there are six punishments for those who commits zina 3 in earth 3 in heaven.1:change in beauty which makes him,her attractive.2:misfortune,3:short life span and he will be questioned for having it.4: on YAWMAL KIYAAMAT,ALLAH SUBHANA WAT'ALA will be angry at him.5:bad measurement of deeds.6:will burn faster than others in hell.MAY ALLAH SUBHANA WAT'ALA FORGIVE YOU.have it in mind that ALLAH SUBHANA WAT'ALA IS THE FORGIVER.MASALLAM.

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